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Resort Girl Reflects on Life’s Second Chances

December 20, 2017

What if, by chance, you were granted a second chance?

Many times over the course of our lives we think, “If I could only do it over again, how could my life, career, and family have played out differently?” As we get older, and we reflect on this question even more, as by this time, life has tested us many times over.

Our daily pattern looks set in many directions – many ways look good, some look so-so and a few appear to be not so good. It is when we start to focus so much on the not so good that we fail to overlook the valuable aspects of life. Society has become increasingly critical, allowing us unprecedented access to other people’s lifestyles. Life has been photoshopped and chopped into showing only the excellent moments of life, beauty and family. But where the true beauty lies…in my eyes…are in the imperfections of life.

Real…not reality. This comparison hit me while studying the vegetables in the produce department of my local grocery store. Reality can be compared to the orange that has been grown organically, but whose skin has spots of brown and green. Contrast that with the almost unreal bright, unblemished and dyed orange skin that was grown with chemicals. Sitting side by side, the artificially enhanced orange appeals more to the eye; BUT, when you peel them back, it is the natural one that melts in your mouth with its genuine, sweet taste. It is how nature created it. Though it may not look as good on the shelf, it is the one with the greatest flavor.

So, maybe we don’t really need some of those second chances in our lives. Maybe we just need to keep all of these photoshopped moments of the most excellent life in perspective, and recognize that maybe some of the ups and downs that are part of our imperfect days can help us realize how sweet our life truly is.

It’s okay to have a few blemishes in our life. They help us grow. They help us know our core. They help us find our true gifts. They help us discover who our true friends and partners are. So, when you see that perfectly photoshopped moment…rejoice in allowing yourself to be a bit imperfect. It made you who you are and lends to the creation of your true life. How sweet it is, Resort Girls and Guys!

 

Reflect

The Leaves of a Resort Girl Life

October 17, 2017

A quote by one of my favorite personal development gurus, Jim Rohn, says:

Success is a Journey not a Destination

This seemed to be a theme this week in my reading – if you think you reach success and then stop – you will also put the brakes on your personal growth. Growth must always be a part of our life, even as we advance in age.

As I have officially arrived in the Fall season of my life, the leaves of life are starting to turn.

Like the Fall leaves, my true colors are starting to emerge. It took years to grow into who I am. Maybe that is what life is all about…growing into a beautiful person of many ideas, thoughts and – ultimately –wisdom.

We are so green and growing in our youth, just like the Spring blossoms. Then, we are bright and sunny during our adult years. Our souls are shining with new ideas and the thrill of discovery. We are like the burning rays of a hot summer day…setting the world on fire.

Then we reach the Fall years, when this growing turns our souls into their true beauty. We have become a mixture of colors influenced by all the loves, careers, cares and dares of our younger years.

Our souls are almost there…to the winter of our lives where we are wiped clean, like the first winter snow. Our minds and even hair turn to the purest of white…we are ready for eternal life.

I plan to appreciate the seasons of my life and not fight them. I will make the best of each season.
This is my season to appreciate what wisdom the world has given me and keep building and growing towards the peaceful Winter rest that is given to us.

We leave this world as we came, naked like the winter trees and with minds reborn just like a newborn.

That is my hope in life.

Resort Girl

Reflect

A Vision for “Your” Life, Resort Girls

June 18, 2017

Do You See the Need for a Vision for Your Life?
Will it Be Living by the Sea, or High Above the Tree Tops, or Above a City Lot?
Why Not?
Dream and Plot
Your Ultimate Lot
In Life
It Might
Just Blossom into
A Dream that Comes True
To be Uniquely You
And Not a Copy of Another
That Would Only Smother
Your Beautiful Individual Light…
The Vision for “Your” Life…
Resort Girls and… Guys!

Resort Girl

Poem, Reflect

Re-Track and Reflect on Your Life Steps, Resort Girls

November 7, 2016

If We Could Re-track Our Steps

Would We Retract

From Some Paths?

Looking back

At Our Paths

Gives Us Time to Reflect

On Days Gone By

On Highs

On Lows

On Those

Who Go By

And Those

Who Stay

To Say

The Things

We Need to Hear

To Encourage Us and Ease Our Fears

Or Even Strengthen Our Souls

To Prepare Us for the Unknown

To Be Strong

And to Long

For the Best Life

With Less Strife

These Souls

Helped to Mold

Us to Hold

Up Against the Strong Tides

In Our Busy Lives

That We Might

Stay Strong and Fight

For the Best Life!

Reflect, Resort Girls and Guys, on what new paths you may choose to take to make the best life…